Robin, I would suggest that you avoid cowboys from "Brokeback Mountain." You would not find happiness with them. I do empathize with you when nature fills us with sexual urging. Lately, my wife has been busy with her sewing and I have been cast aside. I have a replica trout made of rubber hanging on my wall (I am an avid fan of fishing) that I also use to swat flying insects with. I have been occasionally eyeing that rubber trout with curiosity, intrigue, and possibility. People have alsways said I was an odd fellow! /s